Changing – Others

23 08 2005

“We are like sculptors, constantly carving out of others the image we long for, need, love or desire, often against reality, against their benefit, and always, in the end, a disappointment, because it does not fit them.” – Anais Nin

“The boy knew a lot of people in the city. That was what made traveling appeal to him – he always made new friends, and he didn’t need to spend all of his time with them. When someone sees the same people every day, as had happened with him at the seminary, they wind up becoming part of that person’s life. And then they want the person to change. If someone isn’t what others want them to be, the others become angry. Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own. ”
-The Alchemist, Paulo Coelho

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2 09 2005
meditativerose

Nice … maybe we do this because we get lazy and want to stop looking for someone who actually fits …
And I guess we don’t see the point of changing what we’re looking for … have linked you btw – hope you don’t mind.

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